BEING TOXIC

I’m not talking about someone with some illness or some kind of biological sickness. What I mean by “Being Toxic” is all the negative things we hang on to and we refuse to let go. Have you ever heard the expression “That person has bad vibes”? This could either mean how they express themselves or how bad their body language is.
I strongly believe that there is good energy and bad energy and it makes perfect sense; because when we feel consumed with problems or when we are stressed out over bad things that happen to us, we reflect that around people in our own surroundings and it is really noticeable to anyone that comes close to us. Most of the time we cannot help it and we all complain, express our anger, and talk non stop about our problem. This habit impairs us from reaching any good solutions.
I recognize that I cannot help it sometimes, especially when I go thru mood swings and things don’t work out the way I expect. I try to identify these moments immediately with myself, which I find it very hard to do. This is a problem that happens to everybody, we are really bad at pointing out our own flaws and faults, but we are experts in pointing out everyone else’s. Here is when we need the help of others to point out to us when we are “Being Toxic”.
When I say being toxic, I refer to those bad energies that come with negative things. All the bad things around us could come from the peer groups we choose, or from putting ourselves in the wrong places, but the most important thing that causes this is having a bad attitude which often brings the worst in everyone.
Let’s keep in prospective that gossip even though it is very entertaining, it can also lead to negative things making us toxic. Talking negative about something or someone or being part of a conversation that has nothing good to offer or has no positive outcome will not lead to anything good.
I want to stay away from any negative words or things that all the toxic people bring with themselves, some more than others. If we can all focus on the good, the excellence, the positive we can increase our standard ...